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A Quirky and Angsty Lady Bird Review

I am a quirky and angsty teenage white girl. OK… I mean… I’m not. I’m a middle aged black man. But sometimes I’m not sure. I like millennial pop music. I like YA fiction. I love me some CW TV shows (and yes, I maybe have a teeny bit of a schoolgirl crush on Stephen Amell, but have you seen him do the salmon ladder? Who doesn’t? I also can’t wait for the 100 to come back. And are you caught up on Riverdale? Because OMG!). I mean, I’m pretty sure I’m totally a dude… but my favorite movie of last year was probably The Edge of Seventeen, the story of a quirky and angsty teenaged white girl dealing with first world problems as she sat on the cusp of adulthood. I gave it 4.25 out of 5 stars. In retrospect, I maybe even owed it another quarter star. I just found it so relatable and perfect. It spoke to me. And you know, maybe I’d think it was an outlier. Maybe that was just a one-time thing. Except that this year my favorite movie (and it’s been a good year for movies, especially low to middle budget ones) is probably Lady Bird, the story of a quirky and angsty teenage white girl dealing with first world problems. Why do I relate to these movies so much?

Seriously… I’m starting to question things about myself.

Maybe it’s just that they’re good. Lady Bird certainly was. In fact, it was nigh perfect.

Perhaps we are entering something of a renaissance for the female bildungsroman film. That’s what these are. When I reviewed The Edge of Seventeen I noted that I couldn’t really write the review without spoilers, but that was ok because the entire plot of the film was largely given away by the trailer. It was the story of a quirky and angsty teenage girl who suddenly discovered that her quirky and angsty best friend was fucking her older brother. She then deals with it with a succession of completely predictable quirky angst. #WhiteGirlProblems, amirite? Up top! Hello? Anyone? Huh… I really was expecting a high five there. Which maybe would have worked better if there was anyone else in the room as I am typing the review. Oh well.

That said, as predictable as it might have been, that movie worked on every level because it really wasn’t about the plot. It was about the character development as you got there. It was enjoyable on almost every level. It was good because it wasn’t about where the story was going, it was about watching the story get there.

Lady Bird goes a different way. I can’t really spoil the plot because… well, it’s kind of hard to say what the plot is. Seriously. Just watch the trailer:

There’s not really a plot… per se. Lady Bird is a quirky and angsty teenage girl who hates her overbearing mother. That’s it. Seriously. That’s the gist of the story. And it’s not really even a story. It’s more of a character trait. And it’s amazing.

It’s paced very much like a novel. As I said, it’s a bildungsroman. It’s not so much about the specific things she does, so much as the experience of growing up. She has to learn to deal with changing relationships, jobs, applying to college, sex, family, politics, religion… all while trying to actually learn what it is to be an adult. It is about the weird point in life where she is trying to navigate who she is as a person.. figure out who that person is. And it all feels very real and organic.

The hook with Edge of Seventeen is that even though the main character, Nadine, seems like a lovely and bright girl, she’s really kind of an asshole inside. She’s mean and complex. Here, Lady Bird, played by Saoirse Ronan, is almost the exact opposite. She’s unremarkable. She’s an outcast. She’s a loser. She makes the worst first impressions. She’s not initially likable at all. At the end of the day, all of the issues that she encounters are mundane. They are completely ordinary things that we all go through. But the struggles seem real. The key to the film is learning that she has a wealth of emotional experiences going on inside. She’s a very three-dimensional and tangible. The problems may be insignificant in the grand scheme of the world (and Lady Bird knows this) but Ronan plays each scene like every complication is world ending, because to Lady Bird, they are. These are the biggest problems in her very small world. You certainly won’t aspire to be her… it’s more that you will fear that you are her. And that makes you root for her to be ok. For every flaw she has, she is the very definition of strong female character. Her complexities make her real. There’s a reason Ronan has two Oscar nominations and it feels like she is eyeing her third.

The supporting cast is equally strong. Laurie Metcalf is especially strong here as Lady Bird’s mother, Marion, and if Metcalf doesn’t get a Supporting Actress nomination for this film then something is very wrong with the world. Like Lady Bird, she is very unlikable in many ways. In fact, the trailer basically tells you that it’s her defining characteristic. But the success of the movie hinges on the character. You need to believe that although Lady Bird and Marion don’t really like each other that much, they do love each other. And the climax of the film depends on Metcalf getting that across throughout the earlier stages without having it feel forced. She nails it.

And from that comes humor. I’m oddly hesitant to call this a comedy. At least not in the same way that Edge of Seventeen was. It’s not farcical. Nothing contrived happens. The humor comes from its realism. It is funny simply because at the end of the day life is funny. You want to laugh simply to get through the awkwardness… to cut through the angst. The very familiar quirky angst that Nadine had in the other movie. The source is different. In fact, I’m fairly certain that Nadine and Lady Bird would probably hate each other (and now I kind of want to see that movie). But they have the same insecurities deep down. Not that they would have seen it in each other. And both films sort of show us that we all do. Quirky and angsty teenage white girls like Nadine, Lady Bird, and myself… and YOU. Because you are a quirky and angsty teenaged white girl too. You just don’t realize it. You’re too busy wrapped up in the drama of your own life to notice where you fit in with the rest of the world and to notice that everyone else is going through their own quirks and angsts at the same time.

Writer and director Greta Gerwig surrounds Lady Bird with supporting characters that are just as complex as she is. Rather than simply being window dressing to flesh out and facilitate Lady Bird’s life, they all seem to have their own stories going on. We are not privy to all of the details, but their lives seem to progress while they are off screen. When we do get a glimpse into their lives we see that they have unique problems of their own, some big and some small. Since it is not their story, we often don’t see the resolution. Just like real life. Even the most minor characters are delightful, especially Father Walther played by Bob Stephenson. He probably has about 60 seconds of screen time but he may be the highlight of the film.

However, perhaps the oddest thing about the movie is its time setting. It takes place over Lady Bird’s senior year from fall 2002 to spring 2003. There’s not really a good reason for this. Fifteen years ago doesn’t seem quite long enough to be “nostalgic.” After all, we’re currently in the midst of 1980s nostalgia right now. 2000s nostalgia shouldn’t be for another fifteen years. But perhaps that’s what Gerwig is showing us here. She’s ahead of the curve. One day all movies will be like Lady Bird.

That day can’t come soon enough.

★★★★¾(4.75 out of 5 stars)

27 comments for “A Quirky and Angsty Lady Bird Review

  1. avatar
    November 19, 2017 at 4:16 am

    This is probably the first review I’ve read that makes me eager to see the movie. (All the others are “Greta Greta Greta”). And, I was –sometimes still am– an angry teenage white girl so…

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      November 19, 2017 at 4:33 am

      Really? I should look at some other reviews. I actually felt bad that I was mentioning Gerwig enough but I didn’t think anyone would really care about her. But yeah… it’s an amazing movie for a first time director especially.

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      November 19, 2017 at 4:35 am

      To be fair I’ve only read about 3 reviews other than yours.

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      November 19, 2017 at 4:38 am

      3 more than me. I usually try to avoid them until after I’ve written my own

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    November 19, 2017 at 4:36 am

    Odd coincidence. I didn’t look at the date when I linked to it originally… but apparently I actually wrote the review for edge of seventeen exactly one year ago today.

    So maybe it’s just that time of year where a brilliant quirky and angsty teenage girl movie comes out.

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      November 19, 2017 at 8:37 am

      Just in time for the holidays!

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      November 19, 2017 at 8:41 am

      If there’s anything that says thanksgiving, it’s quirky teenaged angst.

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      November 19, 2017 at 8:45 am

      So many years of the unrealistic expectation that my life will be fully actualized when triggered during some random family holiday weekend.

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:05 am

      you’d probably really like the movie

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:07 am

      Hence why I’m not watching it. I’m not on meds and don’t need any more encouragement falling back into my manic-pixie-dream-girl delusions. 🙂

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:08 am

      oh she’s so NOT the manic pixie dream girl. that’s edge of 17 (which is largely about how that archetype isn’t real and that everyone has problems…)

      Lady Bird is more the opposite. Being the fuckup can still be ok.

    • avatar
      November 19, 2017 at 9:09 am

      Girl, Interrupted and Prozac Nation were my manifestos.
      *Sprays RAID everywhere*

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:14 am

      teehee… good choices

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:14 am

      (I may still be a little bit in love with Christina Ricci)

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    November 19, 2017 at 4:37 am

    Nice review, Mav. Spot on. I didn’t know what to expect going into this movie, but it was a pleasant surprise: truly enjoyable (though uncomfortable at times) and funny as hell!

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      November 19, 2017 at 4:51 am

      I’m wondering what parts made you uncomfortable… you can say in comments so long as you put a few SPOILERS warning lines first.

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      November 19, 2017 at 5:44 am

      Oh man. So many awkward moments.

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      November 19, 2017 at 5:45 am

      Meron: you saw it?

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      November 19, 2017 at 5:46 am

      Yes. Laura dragged me kicking and screaming after I dragged her to Thor.

      Both movies featured explosions. Of character development.

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      November 19, 2017 at 5:47 am

      Kicking and screaming?!?! Bah! Such a boy.

    • avatar
      November 19, 2017 at 5:48 am

      Do not underestimate the cardiovascular benefits of kicking and screaming. There are several ancient martial traditions that include both.

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      November 19, 2017 at 6:03 am

      SUCH a boy

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:17 am

      Chris Maverick Like you said, the characters were really well developed, and encompassed all ages. So I could relate to the uncomfortability of the teenage years of the main characters (having been there myself), the somewhat older, post-college tumultuous years, and the uncertainty of middle age. I thought that the guy who played Lady Birds dad was really good. I found him very relatable and sympathetic, trying to get back into the job market as a programmer at his age, knowing what he was up against. Guess the movie really did show that angst isn’t just limited to teenage years. But we just learn how to deal with it as we get older. (Well, most of us ?)

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      November 19, 2017 at 9:20 am

      I think it showed that people don’t even learn to “deal” with it.. they maybe learn to hide it better? Like I felt like they were trying to show that Lady Bird, her dad, her priest, her friend, her brother, her mother… they were all screwed up and dealing with things in their own ways. And it seemed like the weight of the world was on her shoulders… but only because she’s incapable of seeing that everyone else is just a screwed up.

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    November 19, 2017 at 5:31 pm

    Mav what exactly are #whitegirlproblems? Is this different then you know girl problems? Also do you think your inner person is a teenage girl?

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      November 19, 2017 at 6:56 pm

      Answering in reverse order:

      No, I don’t really. But it makes the joke work better if I do.

      Yes, they are.

      Classically its a mark of problems that occur based on privilege. That is to say, that they are issues that more or less seem superficial to anyone who doesn’t have the socioeconomic means to even be worried about the things that are being complained about. But the point both films (or at least the point I’m trying to make in this essay about my interpretation of them) is that any problems that affect the person are by nature the most important things that could be affecting that person at that time.

      Anyway, it’s on urban dictionary: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=white+girl+problems

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      November 20, 2017 at 2:14 am

      Lol. Omg. I love the urban dictionary examples.

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