“I read of one BLM group who organized a BBQ between the police and the community. I think this is a great idea and would be very supportive of BLM if they did this everywhere.”

Dude. BLM literally does stuff like that all the time. There are events like that every weekend if not every single day. Hell H. Jameel Al Khafiz just told you he was at a rally for BLM YESTERDAY in the city you live in!!!! But you aren’t focused on that. You’re focused on the few incidents where violence happened.