Heck, my job is challenging with my relationship. My job sucks all of my social life. I don’t like going to bars because I work in one. I can’t stand most men most of the time. I don’t trust most people. Why bother going out? Wait. Wait for it. To top it off, I’m glad my husband still desires me, but I hate it when I feel he is treating me like the men at work treat me, an object.